Thursday, August 18, 2011

Away from office

Check internet connection at other sub-branch with my branch manager. And I will work with RJ-45 cable for LAN connecting. I hope that I will be back not later than 5pm.

Feeling blue

My positive and negative feeling present in the same time. I am not happy just abit feeling blue.

I am back now

sokuninfo I am back now I will keep you accompany and will be with you. Posting what I want to tell the world.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Appreciation

Please enjoy the reading of the short story. It is not written by me I just quote from my colleague and hope all of you like it :) . Here we go....... to the story



One young academically excellent person went to apply for a
managerial position in a big company.


He passed the first interview, the director did the last interview,
made the last decision.

The director discovered from the CV, that the youth's academic
result is excellent all the way, from the secondary school until the
postgraduate research, never has a year he did not score.

The director asked, "Did you obtain any scholarship in school?" and
the youth answered "none".

The director asked, " Is it your father pay for your school fees?"
the youth answered, my father passed away when I was one year old, it
is my mother who paid for my school fees.


The director asked, " Where did your mother worked?" the youth
answered, my mother worked as cloth cleaner. The director requested
the youth to show his hand, the youth showed a pair of hand that is
smooth and perfect to the director.


The director asked, " Did you ever help your mother washed the cloth
before?" The youth answered, never, my mother always wanted me to
study and read more books, furthermore, my mother can wash cloths
faster than me.

The director said, I had a request, when you go back today, go and
help to clean your mother's hand, and then see me tomorrow morning.


The youth felt that its chance of landing the job is high, when he
went back, he happily wanted to clean his mother's hand, his mother
feel strange, happy but mixed with fear, she showed her hand to the
kid.


The youth cleaned his mother's hand slowly, his tear drop down as he
did that. It is first time he found his mother's hand is so
wrinkled, and there are so many bruises in her hand. Some bruises
incites pains so strong that shiver her mother's body when cleaned
with water.


This is the first time the youth realized and experienced that it is
this pair of hand that washed the cloth everyday to earn him the
school fees, the bruises in the mother's hand is the price that the
mother paid for his graduation and academic excellence and probably
his future.


After finishing the cleaning of his mother hand, the youth quietly
cleaned all remaining clothes for his mother.

That night, mother and sons talked for a very long time.


Next morning, the youth went to the director's office


The director noticed the tear in the youth's eye, asked: " Can you
tell you what have you done and learned yesterday in your house?"

The youth answered, " I cleaned my mother's hand, and also finished
cleaning all the remaining clothes'


The director asked, " please tell me your feeling."


The youth said, Number 1, I knew what is appreciation, without my
mother, there would not the successful me today. Number 2, I knew how
to work together with my mother, then only I can realize how
difficult and tough to get something done. Number 3, I knew the
importance and value of family relationship.


The director said, " This is what I am asking, I want to recruit a
person that can appreciate the help of other, a person that knew the
suffering of others to get thing done, and a person that would not
put money as his only goal in life to be my manager. You are hired.


Later on, this young person worked very hard, and received the
respect of his subordinates, every employees worked diligently and in
a team, the company's result improved tremendously.


A child who has been protected and habitually given whatever he did,
he developed "entitlement mentality" and always put himself first. He
is ignorant of his parent's effort. When he started work, he assumed
every people must listen to him, and when he became a manager, he
would never know how suffering his employee and always blame others.
For this kind of people, he can have good result, may be successful
for a while, but eventually would not feel sense of achievement, he
will grumble and full of hatred and fight for more. If we are this
kind of protective parent, did we love the kid or destroy the kid?


You can let your kid lived in a big house, eat a good meal, learn
piano, watch a big screen TV. But when you are cutting grass, please
let them experienced it. After a meal, let them washed their plate
and bowl together with their brothers and sisters. It is not because
you do not have money to hire a maid, but it is because you want to
love them in a right way. You want them to understand, no matter how
rich their parent are, one day their hair will grow gray, same as the
mother of that young person. The most important thing is your kid
learn how to appreciate the effort and experience the difficulty and
learn the ability to work with others to get thing done.

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Facts about the Lies

Facts about the Lies

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- 81% of people said "harmless lie" every day

- Most people lie 3 times in 10 minutes of conversation

- Following a review of 142 studies, during which 19,801 people (many of whom had experience lies in the recognition of his work) was assessed, lying or not 2,945 people, lies gently was recognized only 54% of cases, only slightly more than 50% that you can dial simply by guessing "yes-no

- 2% of people think that lying is sometimes necessary

- 65% of people think that often / sometimes OK to lie to not hurt someone's feelings

- 44% of people think that often / sometimes possible to exaggerate the events in the story to make it interesting

- 37% of people think that often / sometimes you can lie about his age

- Depressive people are more honest with themselves than the mentally healthy, and when they recover, they become less fair

- 98% of teens say they lie to their parents

- 98% of teens say that trust is very important in personal relationships. 96-98% say that lying is immoral

- 47% of teens say that illegal downloading of music is acceptable, and only 5% considered acceptable stealing from shop

- During the experiment, 32 young people were divided into 2 groups - high and low social status, based on their activity, reported by the parents. Children of high social level lie better. Teens lie better than younger

- 75% of students admit that they become "serial liars * when it comes to saving money or a job

- 40% of parents believe that is normal sometimes lie to children about their own bad behavior in the past

- 68% of women lie about their weight, when the rent on the right

- 91% of women say that the older they become, the easier take themselves, and the lower lying

- 44% of people easier to lie by e-mail, than in manuscript form. During the study, 48 students had to divide $ 89 between themselves and another fictional one group that did not know about the amount of money, but I knew that it varies between $ 5-100 and should decide to accept the proposal or not. When students reported the amount of e-mail, 92% lied when handwritten - 64%

- 15% of employees were caught in a lie directly in the workplace

- 16% of people ever lied to justify "I call on another line" or "I call you back"

- According to the experiment conducted in Australia, 73% of doctors said that washed his hands, and only 9% actually did so;

- 29% of people who are in close relations, acknowledged that lie to their partners about their spending money

- 33% of women lie about their spending money, as well as 26% of men

- 1 out of 10 people had lied during the motor to reduce the contribution

- 15% of people vozrata 18-20 years admit they were wrong to their partners, 11% aged 21-24 years are recognized in the same

- 22% of men say they do not want to call their number of sexual partners

- 17% of men and women aged 18-24 years reported to their sexual partner about the presence of host of sexually transmitted diseases

- 61% of women think that is normal if a man is lying about their appearance

- 26% of men and 9% of women believe adultery to be justified, if their partner is no longer interested in sex

- Betrayal in varying degrees, is the cause of 54% of divorces

- 48% of women say that is normal, when their partner is lying about his attraction to other women

- 39% of women say that is normal when a man is lying about the woman that if she was good in bed

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

L * O * V * E and Care Story

Amazing story of a 90-year-old Gina Bonty and his 89-year-old wife, Bobby.

Gene Bonty soothes his wife Bobbi, his hand on her head bald from chemotherapy.
Gina 90 years, and he cares for his 89-year-old Bobby - cooking, cleans, goes shopping and sees that she was fed properly and regularly. Since then, Bobby made the diagnosis of ovarian cancer, she began to do chemotherapy, she lost most of hair, but the most terrible that she had neuropathy in his left hand and feet, so now she can not yet walk.
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Sherry Jennings carries food from the restaurant fast-food «Starbucks Frappacino» his parents Jean and Bobby Bonty.

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Gene Bonty helps his wife, Bobby up in the bedroom.

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Gene Bonty shows a photo that he and his wife made during a sea cruise.

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Gene Bonty checks his wife, resting in the bedroom.

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Gin makes a purchase at the dinner for himself and his wife.

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Gene Bonty makes shopping for dinner at the supermarket «Sav Mart» several blocks from their home.

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Gene Bonty carries food home for dinner.

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Gene puts food for dinner in the refrigerator, the door is glued pictures of their grandchildren.

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Bobby Bonty 89 years. She had ovarian cancer. It is undergoing chemotherapy, so she had almost no hair. Moreover, it has serious neuropathy in his left hand and feet, so that she can not walk.

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Gene picks moped for his wife Bobbie in a special store for the disabled in Sacramento. Bobby uses a wheelchair, but Jean hopes to buy for her moped when she recovered to make purchases or go to their cottage in Lake Tahoe.

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Bobby Bonty looks like her husband is preparing for her dinner. That evening they had supper sandwiches, potatoes and corn.

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Bobby jeering at her husband, preparing for her food.

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Bonnie thought, while her husband prepares dinner.

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Bobby ready to eat dinner, which she prepared for her husband, Gene. Doctors advised to Bobby separate meals.

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Gene Bonty looks at his pictures when he was a bomber pilot during the Second World War, while his wife, Bobbie is sitting in an armchair in their living room.

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Gene and Bobby remembers the party, which they held in their former living room. They have been married for 68 years, and all their life together were spent in this house.

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Young Gene and Bonnie. They have been married for 68 years, and now 90-year-old Jean's care for her 89-year-old husband, who was diagnosed with ovarian cancer.

Thursday, June 17, 2010